Feb 13, 2010

I gotta learn MOre!

Everybody knows V-Day is a meaningful day, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones.If you were to buy a bouquet of stunning flowers today,it will cost double the price and possibly triple the price on the V day.So Guys, get it as soon as possible before your wallet hurts!

Well,some friends and relatives have been asking me whether I celebrate V day for the past recent years and sadly the answer is NO! What can I say,I am sure God will arrange everything perfectly for me though.Guess this year I have special reason to escape for being busy for CNY!

However things would'nt go smoothly without any efforts and targets right? Look at this LAZY SMUrF below, I think he resembles me!

Guess it is time to spruce up some dating skills though...
The problem is, Who should I refer to?

And for God's sake I love these tips from David De Angelo!

There's an old saying: "Luck is when opportunity meets preparation." If you want to be more successful out on the town, you need to prepare before you go out.

1. Get Fit

Get into a habit of hitting the gym several times a week, and ALWAYS do it on the days you plan to go out later in the evening. You should consider exercise part of your pre-party ritual. Not only will you get into great physical shape, but exercise itself produces endorphins that will get you pumped up mentally for the evening. You'll also notice a boost to your confidence, which in turn will make women notice you.(JOHNJOHN gave an absolutely knod to this!)

2. Get Your House Ready
In preparing for tonight's outing, you need to think ahead and plan for a best case scenario. If you end up having some "company" later, you need to have your place clean and presentable. Always have a bottle of wine handy. Set up a few fun props throughout the house that will make interesting conversation pieces. Think Zen Gardens, a cool coffee table book, or a unique art piece. The more interactive the better! And most importantly, make sure your bedroom is clean, and your bed is made. They say a woman won't get into an unmade bed… I don't know if this is true but I'm not going to be the one to test it out! (Erm,this if still far behind though)

3. Read Up On Current Events
Scan the news today and stay informed on the latest celebrity gossip and entertainment news. This is perfect material for conversations. Even if you aren't that interested in this stuff yourself, you need to show that you are "in the loop" and that you get it. Especially pay attention to celebrity affairs and break ups (There's a new one every week!). Women will be almost too willing to discuss these topics. It's like candy to them! (AGREE!)

4. Get Positive
Nobody wants to be around a negative person, and if you want to be successful with women, you need to come from a positive place. Before you go out for the evening, relax for a little bit. Put yourself into a comfortable space mentally, and use positive self talk to eliminate insecurities. Try to remember a time in your life when you were particularly confident and successful. Try to recall exactly how that felt, down to the smallest detail. How did you walk? What kind of expression did you have on your face? What was your tone of voice? Bring that moment into the present, and watch how it affects your entire evening! (JOHNJOHN GAVE THUMBS UP!)

5. Pre-Party
The Pre-Party should become a ritual you have every time you go out. Think of it like an opening act – it's a warm up for the main event. Meet a few friends, either at your place or theirs. Share a few drinks. Listen to music that pumps you up. Watch some standup comedy, or listen to comedy albums. Share a few jokes. Make yourself and each other laugh. This will put you in the right frame of mind for the rest of the evening.(JOHNJOHN sticks a sillyhat to himself)

6. Think Of Funny And Interesting Stories
In order to avoid awkward moments of silence when talking with women, always have a few interesting and unique stories. Now is the time to come up with some – BEFORE you go out. Make the stories as humorous as possible. For example, you could talk about how you saved somebody's life who almost died in a very embarrassing way. Or you can talk about something unusual that happened while you were travelling abroad. Whatever you decide to talk about, make sure that it makes you look good – you want to come across as confident and humorous, not arrogant. These stories will distinguish you from everyone else, and will offer her some insight into your character, enough for her to want to know more.(AGREE!)

7. Clothing
When selecting clothing to wear, make sure that is current, and fits your persona. You don't have to spend a fortune on the most expensive brands, but buy at least one really nice outfit. If you don't have any idea of what's "in", look at what men who are successful with women are wearing, and follow their example. And remember… women pay attention to the smallest details, so you must also. It sounds trivial, but if your belt and shoes don't match, she WILL notice it! So make sure your outfit is on point. Ask the sales rep to help you, they will be more than happy. (ABSOlutely, I THINK I DID but WHY!)
8. Hygiene
It might go without saying, but you MUST be as clean as possible before you go out. As with clothing, women will notice any detail you missed, and it will reflect poorly upon you. Scrub yourself several times – a once over isn't enough. Eliminate any body odor. Use an antiperspirant instead of deodorant. Brush and floss your teeth, use a tongue scraper and mouthwash to get rid of bad breath, and carry mints on you at all times just in case you slip up and eat some shrimp scampi. Get rid of ear and nose hair, and wax extremely hairy eyebrows. If you have a goatee, beard or mustache, make sure it is trimmed and neat. Check to see if your sideburns are even, and fix them if they aren't. This simple stuff will improve the reactions you get from women IMMENSELY. (YA YA!)

9. Go Easy On The Cologne
Many guys use cologne, which is nice. Unfortunately, they almost always use too much. Be careful, too much cologne sends a message to her that you are trying too hard. Think of it like a scratch and sniff sticker – make her work to be able to smell it. You want her to have to lean in to get a whiff. A good technique is to spray the air in front of you and walk into it. If it's not in a spray bottle, dab on just a little tiny bit on your neck. Believe me, less is more here.(DONE!)

10. Bring The Energy
You want to come across as a high energy, positive person that brings the party wherever you go. So start from the minute you arrive at your destination. As you walk through the door, pretend that you own the place, and it is your job to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. In fact, greet anyone who looks at you, and ask them if they are having a good time. You'll be amazed at the response you get

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